Thursday, July 25, 2013

Shared From A Sister in Christ (and a former student athlete!): Open Letter Woman to Woman

A former student athlete of mine, Sheliah Williams, shared with me this link to a post she had written on her webpage. I am truly thankful to see young women of faith speaking truth unashamedly and encouraging other women of all generations in the Gospel. We are all Proverbs 31 women, married, parents, single, divorced, widowed, we are ALL Proverbs 31 women! Let us all take the challenge she issued at the bottom of her post, let us encourage other women and let us also seek to find our identity in Christ, let us see our value, our worth, our beauty. What a blessing (simply copy and paste the link below):

http://sheliahwilliams.com/2013/07/25/open-letter-woman-to-woman-2/

Friday, July 19, 2013

Thoughts from "The Verdict"....

My heart is heavy over the way I have seen the church react these last few days. Throughout Facebook I have been appalled by the statuses screaming for death and full of hatred and bigotry for others. What would happen if we, those of us who call ourselves by the "c" word on our profiles, that is Christian, that is the body of Christ actually exemplified Christ? What if we showed the world forgiveness and mercy just as Christ forgave the thief hanging next to Him on the cross, just as Christ uttered "Father forgive them, they know now what they do" as He was murdered for our sins? What if we realized our own propensity to sin and dealt with the sins in our own lives before pointing out the sins in others? What if we demonstrated love not by bashing those who appear different based on race or culture but by loving regardless of what they look like or where they came from? What if we like Christ washed the feet of others in service? What if instead of running to the president in outrage were thankful we live in a land with a president and a democracy instead of a land with a dictator and a dictatorship, do we truly want to live in a land where the government dictates, or do we want to live in a land of the people by the people and for the people? What if instead of taking to the streets with cries of injustice we took to the streets and prayed over the poor, sought out the broken and served our brothers? What if we rallied in our churches between our denominations that all were created in the image of God, male and female we were created, that He knows us our frame, he created our uniqueness in the womb, that we all came from one man and one woman and instead of crying for death, valued life, even in the midst of disagreement and heartbreak? What if we, the church, the body and bride of Christ, every race and Christian denomination, every Protestant, Evangelical, Catholic stood as one and actually believed and pursued the words we all say routinely "our Father, which art in Heaven...thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven"? I am a 33 year old single, no children of my own, white, educated, Protestant female raised in the south, I desire a husband and children, I have lived as a minority in Asia, I know that deep down we are all the same, each of us desires to love and be loved, and I believe His kingdom is here His will is being done and I pray each day my life is an example of Him, that He is what shines first when I am met, not the color of my skin or the accent in my voice but the light of Christ going before me and the aroma of Christ lingering behind me. Rise up church, read your profiles and statuses, are you being Christ or being the world?

Wednesday, July 10, 2013

Dear Christy...

I am sorry this is not being written on your actual birthday, but thankfully I was present with you on your special day! It is so crazy to think you have now turned 30...and what a 30 years the Lord has blessed you with. Usually in life it is the younger sibling looking up to the older sibling, and I know there were those moments growing up that you looked up to me. You followed me into every endeavor from piano to sports. And hopefully I was able to be someone you could look to as an example during those years. But I feel the roles have changed as we have gotten older. The things I have desired and longed for my whole life, you have been blessed with and now I look to you. In you I have found a hero, a role model, and a best friend. You have become a wife, who struggles with how to fill the role of not only a wife but a pastor's wife and a serviceman's wife. You have become a mother, who had to see a child buried long before their time. You have a best friend, who loves you dearly and would do anything in the world for you, including leaving her own family and child to be with you in your need. You are a hero of the faith, you have overcome so much in your 30 years that most of us do not have to experience in a lifetime. The quiet and gentle spirit, the joy, the thankfulness, the love you show others despite the circumstances in your life is truly a testament to the faith that lies within you. You are a role model to follow. You have reached a milestone in life as a wife and mother of 4. While your counters aren't always spotless and Rapunzel runs around the house leaving a trail of feathers from her boa on newly cleaned floors, you exhibit a grace and peace that only comes from Him. Your children and husband should rise and call you blessed and one day they will. They can not help but see the love you have for them, the patience you exhibit to them, and the desire you have for them to grow in their faith. They can not help but one day rise and call you blessed. You are a best friend. You have shown me how to be patient within relationships, how to let the Lord lead even in friendships. You have been someone who cares who listens who cries and who laughs. You truly have shown me how to let things go and let the Lord do the work.
So on this day, I celebrate you. I am thankful for the Lord blessing me with a sister who loves Him, who follows Him, who desires to grow in Him. I am thankful for a sister who trusts me, who allows me  times and moments with my nieces and nephew and does not worry. Who allows me to take them places and love on them as if they were my own and make those memories that will carry through life. I am thankful for a sister who realized early in life the Lord gives and takes away, that He is sovereign over all and that all things come through His hand. I am thankful for a sister who loves me unconditionally, who challenges me, who places the Lord first even in our relationship.
You are truly someone we all can look to. May the Lord continue to bless you, may He continue to shine His face upon you and may He continue to give you peace.
Love you,
Jynne